The French Connection and 2 Years Home…

Two years ago today, we woke up for the first time as a family of seven on American soil.

The day we physically got to hold our kids for the first time was August 3, 2012. We were declared a family in the eyes of the Colombian government September 10, 2012. We came to the United States on September 20, 2012.

We don’t know what date is most important, but they are all special to us. In some ways, it feels like an eternity, but in other ways, it feels like just yesterday. We still fight some adoptive-specific battles here and there, but today 99% of the stuff we deal with is normal kid stuff.

We look back from time to time and remind ourselves of how far we’ve come. Two naive parents that didn’t have a clue what to do and five kids who’s entire life and culture were about to change… With a lot of on-the-job training and the grace of God, we are where we are today.

In looking back, a film crew from France was doing a documentary on adoptive children in Colombia on the day we met our kids, August 3, 2012. Because of that, we have those first few moments of seven strangers becoming a family captured on video (with French overdubs). Feel free to watch:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GmK8-nmPTR0&feature=youtu.be

As you can see, the baby was not certain about the whole idea of a new family. To be honest, none of us were, but it is amazing to see how the strangers in this movie would become the most important people in each others’ lives.

Thank you to all and thank you to God for making that moment the start of the hardest, most fun, scariest, most worthwhile, happiest journey of our lives.

At the dinnermesa,

Ty

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2 thoughts on “The French Connection and 2 Years Home…

  1. doris mcanally says:

    How exciting to read about how God has blessed two young people with “PARENTHOOD”. Even more heart shocking to me was trying to imagine “how in Heaven’s name” would my friends Martha and Ron adapt soooooo quickly. I knew there would be disarray/messy times. They never had such in the NICHOLS household. WHAT would they do ??? Tyler, you do not know Me, but your parents do. I am so proud of you and your wife and M&R. God really can use anyone who is willing to be used. Your kids are blessed….so are “all” of you. My Dave must be so excited for the NICHOLS family. Hi to all of them …esp. Chad for Dave. Congratulations on your two year Ann. BECAUSE OF JESUS, DORIS MCANALLY

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